Thinking back
I'm back from the weekend journey to KL. It turned out pretty ok.
Still tired from the trip and I can feel my body aching.
I am a bit sore as I have a stupid conversation with the hubby in regards to mom's birthday and his mom's birthday.
We will be going back to my crib tonight and over to in-law's crib this Friday. I totally forgot that my mom's birthday fall on the Sunday. So I ask him if we can go back earlier than the usual 8.30pm timing on that Sunday.
Then he snapped and told me that we would be going back on Saturday's evening. I didn't get it why he didn't want to go back earlier on Sunday... which is perfectly fine with me.
Finally he said it out loud. He's actually tired of going to Sembawang from work, fetching me and son back home (PR) on our every weekend stayover.
That made me thinking...
In return, I'd have to stay overnight on his mom's birthday over at Sembawang this coming Wednesday and only go back home on Thursday evening after work.
And my turn to worry as there will be no one at home (everyone's working) and I don't like to stay alone there.
Then he snapped again, saying 'fine, i'd take one day leave on that day!'
And thinking of leave, I told him off, 'your leave better save for my after-labour, son's injection and daughter's injection."
In the end, I became upset with his tone and kept quiet all the time. MEN! Don't understand why they don't get it that we can be emotionally disturb at the way they respond to our questions, when we ask nicely... that is.
I guess that Wednesday/Thursday sleepover shall be the last sleepover at Sembawang.
Why?
I'm tired of packing, unpacking and pulling/pushing that blue bag to/fro from one house to the other house. So by next week, I'd be moving back to my mom's crib for good.
I'm back from the weekend journey to KL. It turned out pretty ok.
Still tired from the trip and I can feel my body aching.
I am a bit sore as I have a stupid conversation with the hubby in regards to mom's birthday and his mom's birthday.
We will be going back to my crib tonight and over to in-law's crib this Friday. I totally forgot that my mom's birthday fall on the Sunday. So I ask him if we can go back earlier than the usual 8.30pm timing on that Sunday.
Then he snapped and told me that we would be going back on Saturday's evening. I didn't get it why he didn't want to go back earlier on Sunday... which is perfectly fine with me.
Finally he said it out loud. He's actually tired of going to Sembawang from work, fetching me and son back home (PR) on our every weekend stayover.
That made me thinking...
In return, I'd have to stay overnight on his mom's birthday over at Sembawang this coming Wednesday and only go back home on Thursday evening after work.
And my turn to worry as there will be no one at home (everyone's working) and I don't like to stay alone there.
Then he snapped again, saying 'fine, i'd take one day leave on that day!'
And thinking of leave, I told him off, 'your leave better save for my after-labour, son's injection and daughter's injection."
In the end, I became upset with his tone and kept quiet all the time. MEN! Don't understand why they don't get it that we can be emotionally disturb at the way they respond to our questions, when we ask nicely... that is.
I guess that Wednesday/Thursday sleepover shall be the last sleepover at Sembawang.
Why?
I'm tired of packing, unpacking and pulling/pushing that blue bag to/fro from one house to the other house. So by next week, I'd be moving back to my mom's crib for good.
Labels: stupid fight
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8 Comments:
Halo
Jgm marah marah..Both of u guys are tired so tend to be sensitive. Cool down then discuss wif ur hubby baik2x..Mesti ade alternatives nya. Setan suka tengok suami isteri bergaduh..Byk2x beristighfar since u are pregnant also..Take Care
Harlow
Sometimes there are times when you dont have to be fully depend on your hubby, even though it is his responsibilities. You have to give and take dear..Cheers
didnt u go for marriage preparation class? dont you know that you shouldnt reveal things like this to the public because it creates a bad impression of your hubby? imagine if your hubby has a blog and kept on blogging to make it look like you are the unreasonable one. i'm sure you wont like it.
just my 2 cents.
just your 2 cents.
in marriage preparation class, yes not to reveal the partner in crime bad unreasonable side. however, they also taught the partner in crime to be helpful and check the tone used when communicating. Isn't that so? and i actually should write in to the marriage preparation class that maybe the parents of each of the newly weds to be to attend the course together as there is no harm to help one another in house-management.
on a brighter side, my hubby knows it dear.
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to harlow anonymous.
yes i agree but lately i'm under the weather with this pregnancy coming to 8 mths and a baby coming to a year old (non-stop action pack) so you'd expect me to go back from Sembawang to PR on my own?
and besides, if i'm to stay alone at my mil's house, i can't do much. she has her own set of rules and regulations that i'll have to follow. include no cooking. understand?
and i don't think anyone can measure the give and take within a couple's life. agree? cheers back!
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Hi, dear!
I guess that both of you are just tired, mentally & physically. His buzy with work commitments. You are heavily pregnant & with a toddler in tow. Go for a short holiday. If you can't travel, book a hotel locally & enjoy the moment with your man. Just the two of you. It helps. Work out alternatives together.
Cheers!
June
Link?
Aiyoo...
You you, I totally understand what you are going through. For me myself, yes, some ppl say tak baik wash ur dirty linen in public but then you just have to say it out lah. Myself, I feel much better after pouring out my feelings via blogging.. So, heck to ppl with all their so-called rules. Asalkan kita rasa lega sudah you. Stay happy ok. :D
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