Thinking back

I'm back from the weekend journey to KL. It turned out pretty ok.

Still tired from the trip and I can feel my body aching.

I am a bit sore as I have a stupid conversation with the hubby in regards to mom's birthday and his mom's birthday.

We will be going back to my crib tonight and over to in-law's crib this Friday. I totally forgot that my mom's birthday fall on the Sunday. So I ask him if we can go back earlier than the usual 8.30pm timing on that Sunday.

Then he snapped and told me that we would be going back on Saturday's evening. I didn't get it why he didn't want to go back earlier on Sunday... which is perfectly fine with me.

Finally he said it out loud. He's actually tired of going to Sembawang from work, fetching me and son back home (PR) on our every weekend stayover.

That made me thinking...

In return, I'd have to stay overnight on his mom's birthday over at Sembawang this coming Wednesday and only go back home on Thursday evening after work.

And my turn to worry as there will be no one at home (everyone's working) and I don't like to stay alone there.

Then he snapped again, saying 'fine, i'd take one day leave on that day!'

And thinking of leave, I told him off, 'your leave better save for my after-labour, son's injection and daughter's injection."

In the end, I became upset with his tone and kept quiet all the time. MEN! Don't understand why they don't get it that we can be emotionally disturb at the way they respond to our questions, when we ask nicely... that is.

I guess that Wednesday/Thursday sleepover shall be the last sleepover at Sembawang.

Why?

I'm tired of packing, unpacking and pulling/pushing that blue bag to/fro from one house to the other house. So by next week, I'd be moving back to my mom's crib for good.