Happy Meal

I'm recovered from last week blues. Hubby has been helpful this week, probably dued to his 10am go to work shift. I really like this shift, as he gets to wake up slightly later (accompany me in bed, haha).

He also gets to do the head of the family duty - go pasar, and fatherly's duty - bathe and feed son. Sometimes when I'm too lazy to wake up in the morning, he does his husbandly's duty - cook for breakfast/ lunch (so he can pack some to work).

And as for me, I still continue to do my assistant of the family duty - jaga rumah, motherly's duty - look after the son, and wifely's duty - cook, clean, laundry and iron.

so you see why i love this shift?

oh sidetrack abit. Yesterday Oprah's show and this Warna 94.2fm talk show at 3pm, both having the same topic - MEN. It made me nod, smile and giggle crazy.

Here was some issues brought forward (questions from women):
-why men love sex?
-why men still watch porn after marriage?
-why men are less cuddly in public?
-why men love football, golf, watch cartoons and play games?
-why men still go to stripper club?
-why men are cheat?
-what are they really thinking after sex?
- why men become lazy after marriage?

The answers to above really tickled me crazy.
- who doesn't love sex?
- why worry for us watching porn, its not as if the woman in the porn will come out from the tv.
- you should tell us if you want to hug or cuddle in public.
- we love game, sports as those make us manly, having to challenge with other mates. (huh)
- we go there to chill. no wrong in that area. (huh)
- men cheat with the same reason as women cheat. when there is no more intimacy in a relationship, they will fly to search for another.
- women think after sex "will we get marry, will our kids look gorgeous". while men think after sex "how do I get out from here, how about a steak, oh there's a football match!"
- this i like so much. men get lazy after marriage... hmph. Researches said that men who are not asked to do anything during their bachelor years (mummy does everything for them) are more likely to be lazy and unhelpful when they get married.HAHAHA.

so who to blame? Mummy? (wah i give one tight slap then you know!)

Haha but seriously. Whoever come up with a phrase that men can't help wife to do houseworks? That person deserves a tight slap from new generation wife club.

Scenario 1: Mummy (working or housewife) should be blamed when:
- son too pampered.
- don't even know how to fry egg or cook rice.
- never wash their own plates or cups
- never do laundry by machine or hand
- never hang or fold clothes
- never wash their own socks or shoes (school time lah)
- never clean their own room.
- never touch a broom or vacuum or mop
- never clean a toilet, wash windows
- never go wet-market
- never pray
- worst of all, never change a broken bulb.
- second worst of all, depend financially on mummy or wife. (ada tau)

Scenario 2: Mummy (working or housewife) cannot be blamed when:
- son still pampered.
- mummy never train or encourage the son to do housework but the son learns to do it by himself, or being encourage by wife.
- learns to pray.
- can fix/change broken things.
- build and look after their own financial.

See the huge difference? so as a mama of 1 son, I plan to train him to do housework, especially ironing his own clothes. (talk big ah mama aida) oh well, why not? But don't sampai wife take advantage pulak lar kan....

oh ok another sidetrack. i'm deleting 278 unread messages from my email. lazy to read at all. mostly from multiply updates. aiyah........