Tell tales of tell tales!!!

Weird title. I don't know why. I used to think that once I started my maternity leave, I would have MORE time to myself, blogging, reading or at least traveling. BAH!

Blamed my brother for quiting the maxonline at mom's place and I had to stay there for 2 months without access. Luckily after begging with my mom (very understanding fella), she brought me back to visit my house & let me mingle with the internet then.

After my confinement period were over, I thought 'hey.. i have more time to myself and baby without much control by anyone'. I slowly cleaned up the house. Yes... dear hubby came home to this house practically everyday but did nothing to it, only to hug caress his beloved pc. Have I mentioned? How horribly dirty the house was? The dirt, the mess, the laundry! Ahhhh....

But hey. Dear Hubby had somehow promised his mom that WE would be staying over in Sembawang for 9 to 10 days. (at first it was only a week promise but extended.) Huge sigh. The house a mess, I'm enjoying to at least put it in place and privacy but hey... we had to go.

As I mentioned earlier in here that the stay there wasn't smooth sailing with baby got fever. However I used it as a testing ground for them. It was really tested for me. I just gritted my teeth, did raise my voice to the in law accidentally (for my son's sake, y not?) and kept reporting back to my hubby.

It's different you know. When you have a kid, you will know how I feel. Any difference in believe, you will most likely to snort (and roll the eyes for me). Any difference in handling, you will most likely to shake your head and correct it. You will have the upmost security level up to protect your kid from any harm or believe 24/7. Others - grandparents great grandparents CAN ONLY advise and tell the way they handle the kids. Parents only need to use their head more often and follow what's right and ignore the rests. That's the parents job.

Sigh. I would love to brag more on what has happened. But this is a public site.

Continue. After the week stay at my in-laws, we went back home and started believing to live normally. I was tired with the chores (laundry - cooking - washing toilets - dishes) and the baby. I don't sweep nor mop coz that's hubby's job. I started to be annoyed in many ways.

Then, hubby really wanted to circumsize his son now. So off we went to Dr/Zailan/ at Yishun - Chong Pang area. It wasn't a nice sight, watching your baby cried and blood coming out from his little penis. My sil did the video-recording while I held his hands and hubby held his legs. I was so sad coz I couldn't bear to see him cry and in pain and especially when he turned to look at me and cried loudly. I stuck my finger in his mouth and he sucked it madly.

A week later, the wound was ok. The small plastic ring came out on the morning to my grandparents house in Segamat. Hubby stayed behind coz he didn't have any leave left.
Baby didn't cry alot (thank goodness) and the journey over there was pretty relaxing.

We came back and hubby decided to stay over his parents house for 4 days. I could only go HMMMMM...

There was so much going on. I had to liase with the maid agency. The maid I choose couldn't come in time. So I have to reselect. I had to rush over to the maid agency to get it done coz I was only left 2 weeks. I saw this maid that caught my attention. She was on stand by (which meant she was here to work for her first owner but was sent back due to some reason). She opened the door for me and greeted me. Wow. Like royalty. Alas, after much thinking and discussing with dad, we took her.

I pretty much delayed the journey to my in laws. I decided to clean up my kitchen, fold my dry clothes, clear away rubbish and then pack the big bag. Sorry hubby.

However, my hubby knew how I felt and he pacified me with a midnight movie date. He was really sweet. We left the baby with the grandparents after half a day in arab street. Oh that arab street. I begged my hubby to go there first as I wanted to tailor made my hari raya costumes.

Now back at home, (like so bloody glad) I managed the house without anyone helf for the next two days.

And ho ho. I'm so relieve when the maid I choose takes her on initiative to clean up the house mess without me telling her what to do next next next.

Thank you, Allah!