love actually has a nice message to all its viewers. it says 'love is all around us, only we are too blunt to notice it'.
it started off and ended off with airport scene which to me, was a great one. no matter how disturbingly hurt or ego you are, you tend to throw your arms around those you have not seen for ages. glad is the word... you are glad that person is still alive.
somehow, it never failed to remind us on the September 11 tragedy, where the unlucky victims managed to call to their love ones. all were love messages...not hate ones. or do we feel the need to do so in that kind of nightmarish situation?
i read from dumbelina's blog about her version of love definition. love has loads of definition. one may love for characters, looks and attitudes. indeed, love is blind.
the first stage of love is to admire the person. your heart thumps madly whenever you see the person. you almost faint when the person talks to you or smile to you. the second stage of love is trust and understanding. the rest will come in order in future as the relationship goes on.
in that love actually, you see love ending and arising from different situations. a married boss being seduced non-stop by his secretary. a president falling in love with the tea lady. a writer dumbfoldedly found out his girlfriend shagging his brother, found himself attracted to someone who didn't speak any English. an admirer, admiring her colleague, yet she refused to make a move on him. the dad who went all the way for his son's love to the girl who had the same name as his late wife.
the best of all, the friend silently love his bestfriend's wife. to me, that was the most touching part of love. finding out two people loving you, yet you only love one of them.
love him as a friend, love him as a lover. both have two different distinctive meanings. still, no matter how old you are or how long you been with the person, or how long you are married to the person, you would still be cluelessly unsure of the real love definition.
for now, my love is simple. i love him for his gorgeous eyes, sincere heart, listening ears, down to earth character, caringness and his loyalty. just thinking of him now makes me miss and love him once again. how odd is it?
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